What to do When Someone Passes

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A Step-by-Step Guide from Wearside Direct Cremations

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A Step-by-Step Guide from Wearside Direct Cremations

Losing someone you love can leave you feeling overwhelmed, and it is completely natural to be unsure about what needs to happen next.

At Wearside Direct Cremations, we are here to guide you every step of the way. You do not need to have all the answers before calling us. Our experienced team will explain everything clearly, answer your questions and support you through every stage of the arrangements.

The guide below explains the steps that usually need to be taken following a death.

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Whether your loved one has passed away at home, in hospital, a hospice or a care home, our experienced team will guide you through every stage of the process with compassion, dignity and understanding.

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Step 1 – Confirm the Death

If the death happens at home

If your loved one dies at home, contact their GP during normal surgery hours or call NHS 111 outside of these times.

A healthcare professional will attend to verify the death before the Medical Certificate of Cause of Death can be issued.

If the death happens in hospital

Hospital staff will guide you through the next steps and liaise with the Medical Examiner before the necessary documentation is completed.

If the death happens in a care home or hospice

The care team will support you and explain the next steps whilst the appropriate medical professionals complete the required documentation.

Step 2 – Contact Wearside Direct Cremations

Once the death has been verified, contact our caring team.

We will:

  • Arrange to bring your loved one into our care.
  • Explain the Direct Cremation process.
  • Help complete the necessary paperwork.
  • Liaise with the relevant authorities where required.
  • Answer any questions you may have.

Unlike many national providers, your loved one remains under the care and guidance of Thompson Brothers & Sons Funeral Directors throughout every stage of the arrangements.

Step 3 – The Medical Examiner Process

Since September 2024, every death in England and Wales is independently reviewed by a Medical Examiner before the Medical Certificate of Cause of Death is issued.

The Medical Examiner may:

  • Approve the Medical Certificate of Cause of Death.
  • Speak with the family if clarification is required.
  • Refer the death to the Coroner where necessary.

This independent review provides additional reassurance for families before funeral arrangements continue.

Step 4 – Registering the Death

In most circumstances, a death should be registered within five days of the Medical Certificate being issued, unless the Coroner is involved.

You will usually need:

  • Full name of the deceased.
  • Date and place of birth.
  • Home address.
  • Occupation.
  • Details of any spouse or civil partner.

The Registrar will provide the documentation needed for the funeral arrangements and explain the Tell Us Once service.

Step 5 – Arranging the Direct Cremation

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Step 5 – Arranging the Direct Cremation

Once the documentation has been completed, we will arrange every aspect of the Direct Cremation on your behalf.

Our fully inclusive service includes:

  • Bringing your loved one into our care.
  • Professional care throughout the arrangements.
  • Completion of all necessary paperwork.
  • Provision of a simple coffin.
  • Dignified transportation to the crematorium in one of our dedicated Hearsettes.
  • Respectful unattended cremation
  • Ashes returned to your family in a suitable container.

Step 6 – Take Your Time to Remember

One of the benefits of Direct Cremation is that there is no pressure to organise a funeral service immediately.

Many families choose to arrange a memorial or celebration of life days, weeks or even months later, allowing everyone time to come together.

Whether you choose a church service, a family gathering, the scattering of ashes in a meaningful place, memorial jewellery or another personal tribute, there is no right or wrong way to remember someone you love.

Step 7 – Inform Organisations

Following the death you may need to notify:

  • Banks and Building Societies.
  • Pension providers.
  • Insurance companies.
  • Utility providers.
  • Solicitors.
  • HM Revenue & Customs.
  • Department for Work and Pensions.

Many government departments can be notified through the Tell Us Once service.

Tell Us Once

The Government's Tell Us Once service helps notify several government departments at the same time, including:

  • Department for Work and Pensions (DWP)
  • HM Revenue & Customs (HMRC)
  • Driver and Vehicle Licensing Agency (DVLA)
  • Passport Office
  • Local Council Services
  • Electoral Register

Your Registrar will explain how the service works during your appointment.

Government Information

Tell Us Once

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Coroner Involvement

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Coroner Involvement

Occasionally, a death must be referred to the Coroner.

This may happen if:

  • The death was sudden or unexpected.
  • The cause of death is unknown.
  • The death was accidental.
  • There are legal reasons requiring further investigation.

The Coroner's Office will explain the next steps and keep you informed throughout the process.

Bereavement Support

Grief affects everyone differently.

If you would like additional support, the following organisations can help.

Cruse Bereavement Support

Samaritans

Available 24 hours a day.

Winston's Wish

Supporting bereaved children and young people.

Useful Local Contacts (Hospitals)

South Tyneside District Hospital

University Hospital of North Durham

Queen Elizabeth Hospital, Gateshead

Register Offices

Coroner

HM Coroner for Sunderland, South Tyneside & Gateshead

Need Advice?

If you have any questions after reading this guide, please don't worry.

You do not have to remember every step.

Simply contact our caring team and we will guide you through everything, one step at a time.

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